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Monday
Feb092015

She's Allowed To Want To Go To Every Game

Rediscovering the world through a new set of eyes is one of the best things about being a parent, no doubt. It is very much so my favorite thing to take Mila or Alexis somewhere new for the first time and watch their reactions.

Mila is, of course, a treasure trove of new discoveries. Pretty much everything is new and shiny to her.

Pretty much everything is exciting, too.

A few weeks ago, Mila had the opportunity to attend her very first basketball game. Alexis was cheering at a high school game, so Mila and I piled into the stands to watch. The first moment of fantastic was the very second we walked in. Bright lights! BRIGHT LIGHTS! Mila flapped her arms as if she was going to fly up to the lights and admire their shininess up close.

By the way, her eyes are always big. Always. But when she purposely makes them bigger because she sees something amazing? All the awesome. ALL. OF. IT.

The next moment of fantastic came when the National Anthem started. If you've ever wondered what aliens would think if they were to show up just as we all stood staring at a flag and singing in unison, there it was. Her face told the story. It's one of confusion similar to what happens when a room full of people are in on a joke and you don't get it. Mila looked around the gym, as if searching for the video cameras that would prove it was all a prank. She was so very confused.

Then the game started. So much running! And jumping! Weeeeee! Mila stared intently at every second of the action. She tracked the players from one end of the court to the other and back again, over and over. She was totally and completely captivated.

It's possible I let out a happy sigh. My girls enjoying basketball is one of those things I hope for but try not to count on.

But then there were fouls. Mila took every foul very personally, the whistle that stopped the action causing her to spontaneously cry. She was sadder than Kanye's going to be when he finds out that prenup is iron clad.

What?

You know you're surprised it has lasted this long.

The best, though. The absolute best thing about Mila at a basketball game is her reaction to the voice of God. I mean, it wasn't really God, but it was a disjointed voice that boomed over the loud speakers from time-to-time. As the announcer declared that someone new would be entering the game, Mila would do the startled baby arm flap, her eyes would bulge out of her head, and she would look around desperate to figure out who was talking.

It was a kid at the scorekeeper's table, by the way. Just don't tell Mila.

Now that I think about it, that basketball game is about when Mila stopped sleeping independently. Perhaps her fear of the voice of God is what sent her over the edge ...

 

Sunday
Feb082015

Time and Experience

"I should try putting her in her crib," I thought to myself. But then the Nope-asaurus walked by and set me straight.

Nope.

Nope.

Nope.

All the nopes. The baby who currently sleeps best when attached to me stayed right where she was, sound asleep in my arms.

Oh, how time and experience change things.

Nine years ago, when Alexis was wee, I would have fought the fight. I would have forged through a shaky bedtime ritual with a sleepy little girl then patiently waged war. THOU SHALL SLEEP IN THY CRIB! IT'S THE ONLY WAY!

Hindsight being 20/20 and all of that, I now know that following the "rules" about sleep and all that BS is exactly that. Little people will sleep when little people want to sleep. Screw you and your insistence that they do it according to some sort of training program, Dr. Ferber and Dr. Sears.

Time and experience tell me that the baby who could sleep through me doing jumping jacks through Times Square on New Years Eve as long as she's touching me, but who wakes up the very instant I eye her crib, is best off right where she is.

In my arms.

For hours on end.

This parenting the second time around stuff sure is fantastic.

Saturday
Feb072015

Peanut